4months post and am intimate with my partner. I still feel the opening is big, and it feels painful when he comes from the back, feels like I'm re-tearing all the way to the anus. Went to the Dr, after an exam she said I am healing just slowly.
Is this norman? Do I have to get re-stitched? Will kegels ver get me back to my tight self? I'm worried, I love my partner and I love being intimate with him.
Help!!!!!