I've always wonder why I can't put anything in my vagina without hurting myself. I've heard elsewhere that, on the first time that you have vaginal intercourse, it hurts a little. But I can just about get a cotton bud inside, and not deep either. I've tried fingering myself on numerous occasions during my mastrubation sessions, but it hurts alot. When my boyfriend tried to finger me, it hurt also. And on the first time he hadn't even attempted to enter me, we was rubbing me at the entrance. Last night, while we were playing a little game, at one point he was onto of me, I on my stomach, and he was humping me. But when his penis fell into place with my vagina, I felt excuricating pain, and it took me a few moments to recover from it. It's also the same with my anus, but I'm not sure if it is as bad as my vagina, cause he's only fell into place with my auns once or twice. Also, he's big as well, which frightens me when I think about how it would feel if we were to go all the way, cause I'm scared he may end up hurting me alot, and that would upest both of us. Is there an explaintion for my pain, and is there anything I can do about it (which won't cost me a fourtune) ?