My boyfriend keeps bringing up having 3sums, i tell him i don't want to have one and i ask him to please stop bringing it up, and he says okay. He says it's not important to him--but i feel like he continues to ask "if you could choose any guy or girl to have a 3 way with us, who would it be?", so to me it seems like it is important to him. I know 3ways are for sum (pun intended), but for him to keep bringing it up makes me feel really insecure and like I'm not good enough for him..
anyways, I am looking maybe for ideas to make sex more spicy but comfortable and enjoyable for the both of us