I broke my ex boyfriend's trust by lying to him, about what I did in a past relationship. How can I earn back his trust and show him how much I love him
Trust?
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- 3+ months ago by hsa1997
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- past, love, boyfriend, lying, back, trust, broke, relationship, relationships
Answers (3)
We all know trust is something that is hard to gain but so easy to break like making a castle of sand. Ask him how he feels. I know this sounds cheesy but be patient. Depending on what the situation is, it has to be taken seriously. Ask yourself: "Why did I lie to him?" "What was my gain by lying?" and be brutally honest with yourself. Think of all the aspects of your relationship with him and think of every possibility of what he might be thinking. Take it as if he did the exact same thing to him. Even though you might think you could forgive him easily, would you really? If you trusted him to tell you everything and that he loved you enough to do it. Would you forgive him easily if he told you something unforgivable that he did with his last girlfriend? Tell him why you did it and how you feel. Give him a little time to cool off, get him in a quiet place, sit down, and have a brutally honest talk with him about it. Tell him that you need to talk with him, and if he still doesn't want to be at least friends by the end then he can go. I know this is taking a risk but by saying this he is more likely to listen and go along with it.