I'm 13 years old, and I am getting to the part in my life where I an interested in having a boyfriend. I see all these shows with nice guys. I want that. So, this guy I like is in my grade, we have been friends since 5th grade.. I'm in 7th bow. So.. we've been to the mall together, my birthday party, and to my house. We fight sometimes like bro and sis. One day, he texted me and we were talking about something and he spells my whole name (first middle and last) out and he puts I LOVE YOU!!! After it. I liked him. I said it back. And he says "seriously I do love you" and I believed him. So I said it back again meaning every word and space. And the kicker is that he loves jokes and he texted me "will you go out with me??" So I asked him ifbhe was serious and he said no. Mmm. I wanted to scream. So he goes " I love you like a sis." My heart broke into millions of pieces. I felt like a sucker. So, after that I just wanna know if he likes me. How should I do it??
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This same thing happened to me I'm 12 and I'm kinda us to it now but I like this guy and I thought he liked me back but he just liked me as a friend but I didn't know and I asked him out and he said yes then we made a date and we kissed and he said wow what was that?? And later I said to him do you like me he said ya but I don't want to date you it might rouin us so just ask him that and good lck!!!
Hey Honey,
I'm 20 years old, an older sister, sorority sister, and big sister at Big Brother Big Sister of America; so I think I have a lot of knowledge about this topic.
Here goes...
Boys at that age are really silly. They don't know how to express their feelings or even know if they mean what they feel and vise versa and unfortunately it would not be in your favor to push it. If you are close enough to him to where he is telling you that he loves you even if it is like a sister, nine times out of ten, he really really LIKES you.
Girls mature faster than boys and once a boy reaches 12 their hormones are all over the place... remember that! Love to them is a four letter word but it does necessarily mean that he doesn't like you. Im sure he does!!
Just be patient, be there for him, drop hints, and I'm sure once he sees that you are serious about your feelings he will come around!
**Remember, DONT PUSH THE SITUATION, LET HIM COME TO YOU!**
Thank you!!! You helped SO much (:
You are so very welcome!
Thanks! That helped a lot(: