I held my feelings inside for six years before telling her, I did my best not to come on too strong but it seems to me that I may have anyway and it seems to be severely effecting her, my mere presence bothers her and she hasn't spoken to me in person since before I told her. All my attempts to talk to her through text were met with the phrase "Leave me alone.". I told her that even though I feel this way and you don't I would be fine with it as long as we could still be friends, her answer to that word for word was "I want to be nothing to you." Our relationship is that she is my best friends sister and I'm pretty close with their family everyone in her family seems to like me especially her younger brothers. I am at a loss as to what I should do. I'm a smart guy and I have be thinking some crazy things lately thankfully I have not acted on them. Does anyone have a clue as to why things went down like they did?
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Thats wierd that she would not speak to you after you confess your feelings for her. Maybe she knew that this would happen, have you been showing her that you liked her these past 6 years? It could be that she's confused. What I would do is; hang out with another female, make her a little jealous, and if she liked or had feelings for you then she'll come around, if not then its better off if you forget about her and move on. You don't want to waste anoter 6 years wondering why she won't talk to you!! Real talk!! Good luck!
We live rather far from each other so that would make the jealousy plan a little difficult not to mention that doing such a thing is completley unlike me and out of the question.