Ok so finally after a long time chatting I met this guy..we started going out and have a lot in common . Chemistry between us is really amazing. But he has a 2 y old son from his previous relationship, and since the breakup between him and his ex was bad now he is trying to get parental rights on court. He was really open and honest about his situation. I have never been in similar situation , so do not really know what to do with this. I am 27, educated and working and he is 31 and a medical doctor. I would appreciate all of your help and advice or even some experiences . Thank you!
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Why not?
To my opinion, there aren't any reason you should be afraid of.
This is a kid, and it happens people have kids after divorcing, but there is no reason him to be a bad man. More than that, I think people after such kind of experience are getting smarter and wise.
You can go for a date with him and then decide for yourself what will be better for you.
I think, nobody can tell you better what to do in such situations, then you.
Anyway, good luck and enjoy your dating.
Hi, Sarra123. I can tell by the way you speak of him that he is an amazing guy. He is a good father for trying to get custody of there child. But I really do not think that is such a good Idea since he is looking for someone to replace the 2 year old child's mother. That child is still young. Just met his mother. How would you feel if you were that poor child. Think about it. It is every young girls dream to merry a medical doctor but, money does not buy happiness. Let's say He gets custody of that poor, innocent child. When you introduced the baby you said “BUT” which tells me that you see the baby as a problem. The fact that you see the child as a problem will force that child to later give you problems in the relationship because, he'll feel less important. Yes all medical doctors deserve to be happy but, so do you. My honest opinion~ I think that you feel bad for him and want to help were love is needed because, you like the way he treats you. If you really want to help. Help the baby throw motivating his father to leave him with his mother or, HER mother. They will give the child true love and a good ass whipping when he does something wrong. So he may grow up to be a loving person just like you. Only they can love the child like, your mother loves you. You are still very young, finish your studies, enjoy life and when your done, give yourself a fresh start. YOU DESERVE IT. BUT if you like this guy enough to love his child more then you love him. Then ask yourself. Does he make me haPpy ENOUGH that it does not matter if my family turns on me, it does not matter if everybody gossips behind our backs. As long as I am happy. If that is how you feel. THEN I ASK OF YOU TO GO AND BE HAPPY. AND ENJOY LIVING A HEALTY LIFESTYLE. AFTER ALL HE IS A DOCTER. He'll make sure that your breath is fresher then a peppermint. So go and let him in even if his full of bull crap. Young money, young money you'll be getting rich.lol girl you know what it is.. I'm sorry but get use to people saying that. Be strong for love.
