lets stay for example you are in this relationship with this wonderful person , and you love that person beyond description , but then you start wondering " would she love me if i were better looking or taller or had more positive traits ? " . so my question is , would your partner love someone better than you more than they love you ?
This question is very personal and difficult?
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- 3+ months ago by jcena
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- personal, love, relationship, question, relationships
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There are many ways people approach love. If they are in fact your partner and they agree to love only you in a closed relationship, then they shouldn't fall in love with anyone 'better'. To them, you would be the best! However, sometimes the people we love betray us. My advice is to look for someone who thinks you are the best and that there is no one better.
Relationships are based on trust and mutual respect. They grow and become more fulfilling if they are done right. One of the basis for a good relationship is to put the needs of your partner above yours. Gary Chapman has written a wonderful book called the 5 Love Languages. Briefly they are quality time, acts of service, gifts, touch and words of affirmation. Did you notice being dynamic and awesome looking is not in there? It is based on how you serve that person. Truth is if you would marrying your partner and you grow old together...that's just it you look older. Therefore relationships are based on how you relationaly get along. My suggestion is to get your eyes off you. Find joy in surprising your partner with good words, little gifts or time with just you two alone.