This is kind of a serious question,but how do I know if my parents are emotionally abusive?

He is abusive if he makes you feel bad or your family bad or worthless, or like you’re constantly messing up. This sounds abusive, but possibly unintentional as this behavior does not seem like it is under control. To be clear on what is abusive, look up the word abusive in the dictionary to clarify for yourself. You may want to go to therapy, and if you can’t consult with someone who can possibly help such as a guidance counselor. If there is an adult you can tell who can help and talk to your dad such as a grandparent, than try and ask them to talk. Your dad sounds like he may need emotional help, maybe stress help. Even though he is acting irrational, try and help around the house or at least do what is asked if you. This way if you’re yelled at it would be irrational to yell at you for something out of the blue. Helping out can also have your dad cut down on some of this behavior, if he even turns out to be angry for what he is saying he is. I wouldn’t jump to arresting him as that sounds irrational from just this behavior. If things get worse, for example, he attacks you or someone else, that could warrant bringing in the authorities. Even if you call the authorities you would have to explain to them exactly what happened and the events leading up to him physically injuring someone, preferably with witnesses as well as household police reports, like other police reports, prove more effective with witnesses. You may also want to consider the fact that this can end up in a custody battle that effects everyone in your household. Before making drastic descisions see if anything can be done to prevent or lessen his behavior or help the family. Only call if you are in much danger. If he blows up like this again, screaming, tell an adult, such as an accessible family member or family friend, preferably as soon as possible. Hope this helps and good luck.