We met months after he got engaged. He told me that he never met anyone like me before and that I'm incredible; he also said that I made him realize that he wasn't happy in his relationship. I asked him why can't you just break up with her and he said his parents would hate him if he ended it with her, so apparently he will find a way to make it mutual and told me to wait. what should I do? should I wait or just leave him alone?
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Saying his parents would hate it isn't good enough. He's the one in the relationship not them, if you meant enough he'de have done it already but staying with him is only prolonging the situation and your the one who will end up heart broken. Think about it he's getting it from both of you so of course he's gonna say that. He should put you first for your own sake i'de move on you don't deserve that. Unless you don't mind being his 'bit on the side' not being harsh but if he really wasn't that happy he wouldn't be with her you have to think about this carefully i mean he might never finish with her..
also we never did anything just so you know
I would just end it if I were you. Sounds like he's not worth all the drama.
I understand, but it's weird because they don't live together and he also told me they haven't done anything in four years. I don't know if I should believe him, maybe I should end it.