This girl I am dating is blaming me for everything why?

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Hello,

I am really hoping that somebody can clear things up for me.  I am in a pretty confusing and weird situation.

I have met this girl she is 27 years old.. she liked me very much was crazy about me.. but she is really weird and confusing for some reason and i don't know why she is acting like that.

When we are smiling, laughing, talking about funny things everything is oke.. if i don't respond on whatsapp in a hour, or sometimes i just forgot to say good morning.. she became angry and blocked me on whatsapp.. tellijng me yea facebook is more important then me... then she unblocks me again a day later.. then for example she LOVES to pick up fights for the smallest things.. because i told her i am not able to come this weekend to you because i have no car at the moment BUT if you want i asked her you can come to me i will pay for your gas.

She said: YEAAA i know enough.. you dont wanna see me.... you are playing games with me.. but all the TIMIE i staid calm and relaxed.. explaining why.. giving her REASONS she doesn't even read it.. she just attacks me with words like you are nothing for me.. i wish you good luck.. bla bla bla... you are playing games. Also if i am sitting with my parents and friends talking she's is like can i talk to you? So i tell her currently i can not call you because i have visitors i will cal you later... she is like WELL i am going to sleep you dont have to call me and gets mad... for basically EVERY single thing i say she gets mad...

Now she blocked me and since then i havent talked to her...

But when i was at her place everything was perfect.. no fights no discussion or anything..

I really dont understand that.

Can somebody explain this? I havent done anything wrong i know that for 1000%.

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I can't explain why she acts like this, but will try to hepl you. I have two offers, first one: she blocks you, ok, write her that you want to communicate with her etc, but your are tired of being blocked, and you won't write to her firts. Don't write her, wait untill she writes you. 
Second offer: meet with her and try to talk and explain, try to find out what she wants, may be she is lack of attention

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Well maybe she is emotionally unstable or/and has trust issues. I admittedly am like this girl. I met my spouse online and at first everything was good but when we officially got together after years of just being online friends I started getting worried that they still loved this person who they use to love..only reason they didn't get together was because my spouse was shot down. I felt like I was getting them on the  rebound. I like this girl would get on my spouse for silly things...like not helping me carry something when my hands are full, jokingly saying our birds curse at me, etc. Cool down time is key and if yo can still text her write things like "I love you", "I'm thinking of you" ,"Miss you sweetie",etc.  Just let her know you care and you are not just making excuses to not see her. If she's mad give her space.

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This is a friendzone brother. And the only way to break out of a friendzone is to pay no attention to her. She will realize how much you meane to her, and she wont blameyou for anything anyore.

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Run...don't walk away from this woman. At 27, she should be mature enough to handle a relationship, but is not. She is the one playing games.....not you. She also sounds controlling and manipulative. You deserve better than this and there are allot of stable girls out there....go find one, because the one you have is severly emotionally damaged.

This girl I am dating is blaming me for everything why?

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