Well this guy likes me. I don't know him at all but my friends told me he liked me. I'm not attracted to him. I use to like another guy but he doesn't like me. I guess it's because I don't know him that I'm not comfortable with the idea of me and him going out. I don't know if I should give him a chance. I want to be open minded. What should I do or recommendations.
There is this guy that likes me but I don't find him attractive?
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- 3+ months ago by Grant2
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Well I kind of like the idea of him and me.
( Anyways the guy I used to like kind of made me scared of liking this guy and getting hurt or humiliated. I don't like the guy since a while ago. )
The guy that likes me seems sweet. I think I will see how things go. :)
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There's no reason to go out with a guy that you don't like, or are not attracted to. But maybe if you get to know this person, you will feel like they are fun or that you do find them attractive. If you're not completely turned off every time you see this person, why not try going out with a group of friends to get to know this person a little better and see if you have anything in common?
The best feeling is BEING LOVED...!! You don't know the guy & do not even find anything attractive in him. But remember HE LIKES YOU so much, that means there is any quality, beauty that made him to like you. So respect him for that, he will respect you too.
People who likes you respects you, treat them with love & respect.
Thanks I'm trying to talk to him now.
There has got to be chemistry when u have seen him,I know its not easy cos u havent had time around him but u no wot u like and if he isnt that then its not worth the hassle.u only do risky things like that if see a person and find them attractive and u exchange glances ect. Its silly signals that we pick up on. Go with your instincts
That, my friend, is a pity crush. He likes you, you don't like him but you feel bad. I know someone who went out with someone due to pity. On their one month anniversary, they broke up. The girl only liked the dude because of pity and she was a bit nervous to answer. "He was sweet when he asked me." She said, "But now he's freaking rude." Some people only like you for your looks. Obviously he likes you for your looks if you don't know him. Don't go out with him- get to know him better and then you can answer your own question. :)
Now you are confuse about whom to choose. The one whom you like or another who loves you. I think whether you don't know that guy who likes you but in spite of that you should talk him. It would be better to know him and his feelings too because sometimes simplicity is more beautiful than smartness. Meet that guy and read him thoroughly than decide that his thought matches you or not. If it happens than no one would be better than that for you.
I think I might try that.