Well, I become good friends with a guy friend at summer, then we kept talking but his best friends hate me and one was my ex best friend, and this guy i was good friends with, his brother is best friends with my sister so i thought i had hope. and last month one weekend we told each other on the phone that we're good friends and the first day back at school i realised he was literally avoiding me. and so i asked him and he told me he just didnt want to start a friendship. i asked him again after a couple of weeks it was the same answer. and its been a couple of months now and i really think he has good intentions and his brother is pretty cool. What should I do?! :(
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awe....I feel so sorry for you! I am a similar yet different ( i know...i just contridicted myself) situation. Ask him why he is doing this? Is it because of his friends? Ask his brother if anything is wrong. Maybe the brother can be sneaky and say "Hey I haven't seen ____(your name) in a while. How is she doing?" etc.
What happened to you and his friends should not change his opinion. Its plain stupid. and if he sees this comment, then he should know that he is the stupidest guy ever because you sound like a great person
Yes, he may be the stupidest guy ever, but spare yourself, he's gone. Find yourself a new friend, and consider this one to be a lost dog With the amountof time passed and his repeated comments, let him find his own way back to the kennel. Stop beating yourself up. Believe me, friends come and go throughout your lifetime, it's the good ones who remain.