Okay, im 15 years old and I live in North Carolina. Two years ago, i moved in with my aunt and uncle to get away from my mother who was heavy on drugs. I thought it would be the best decision but now i am getting abused with my aunt as well. My uncle tries to help but he can only do so much because he's only home on the weekends. She hits me, and calls me names. Its getting very hard, and she threatens to send me back to my mother. I have my boyfriend, and he has offered to take me in. His mother has agreed, but since were both under the age of 18 there isnt really anything we can do. And im afraid if i go back to court, the judge will send me to a foster family and i dont want that. So, my question is, is there anyway i could go stay with my boyfriend and his family? Or, since my uncle has custody of me as well, i could stay with me? Im very confused, and im scared to go home somedays. Im not looking for a rude answer, or any negative comments. Can somebody please give me some advice? My aunt DOES have custody of me from my mother. I've already been hospitalized once for cutting and suicide attempts, i dont want to go down that road again.. and the only reason i havent is my boyfriend. Please help.
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Responses (4)
tell someone and when you go to court tell the judge you have people to stay with that wont abuse you don't hurt yourself always remember when you have noone you have god I am sorry your aunt does that but your legel at the age of 15 in the state of north Caroline to say were you want to live and if she is beating you have witness when you get in front of the judge hope everything works out pray god will answer your prayers
i think if this case is with the knowledge of your uncle maybe he can give a written agreement for you to be able to live with your boyfriend since in depends on what you say you trust them and his mom is okay with let your uncle talk to your boyfriends mom and have an agreement in that way your aunt or your mom cannot do anything about it
I find that the only thing that gets me through every day is the idea of leaving. I strongly dislike my home life so I have started to plan my life once I leave home. I want to be able to leave and not look back and in order to do that i need a dang good plan. So try planning your escape you may find that it helps.
well when you turn 16 I heard you can become imansapated this means you can go where you want to go but its a court paper where you have to file that paper work if you at that time do this it means your suppose to divorce your aunt paperwork has to be legal as your mom giving your aunt custody you can't do it by mouth it has to be done in court
Thank you!