one of my so called friends frequently goes after the guys i like, even if im with them! another friend is going out with one of my other friends but keeps putting herself in situations with other guys, not actually doing anything with them but flirting, laughing etc. when hes not around. should I tell the first friend to back off or else, and the second friends boyfriend what shes doing (even though he wouldnt believe it and i would most likely end up losing him as a friend too) or do i just cut them both out of my life and hope that some day they will get their just rewards?