So you could have been prepared, what do you wish you knew before marriage?

Many many things. The one thing I wish I would of done was ask the basic everyday questions. The questions that u already have answers to are the ones u need to ask. Many people find themselves in an unhappy marriages due to things they knew were important or deal breakers but didnt bother to find out until it was to late. Whats sad is that it all could of been avoided if they only would of communicated before hand. Kids, money, parenting, religion, in laws, chores, work, bills, etc... all these things should be talked about no matter how small or irrelevent it may seem. Why wait to solve a problem when an issue arises. Why not ask the questions now that way u already know the answers. Its kind of hard to claim u didnt know something when its already been discussed!