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im a 19 year old who just dropped out of college and currently has no plans to return there. I'm living with my parents, but I'm not sure if i should continue that, they say i can stay as long as i want but I'm pretty sure its looked down upon to live here forever.but my parents don't know I've dropped out yet.
should i just move out? go back to college? i have no idea.
(also a job has never been a problem for me, i work 3)
I was in the same boat when I was your age. (In still young though) It's hard to figure out what to do with yourself once you graduate, and everyone expects you to know exactly what you want to do with yourself, but it's not true. I personally stayed in college and took a few course that were basic courses for every major. It also softened the blow to my parents. Also it's a lot harder to go back once you quit. I took off for a year to have a child, and coming back has been dreadful. Trust me just working and so much easier, but is that what your really looking for? Take your time, it's okay. Take a few random courses that sound semi-appealing and it might lead you somewhere who knows.
I'd really recommend going back to college. At 19 this is the time to be learning and getting qualifications. Later on it's much much harder to do. It'll make your parents happier as well, and I'm sure you don't want to disappoint them. You'll make more money in the long term if you have some pieces of paper that say you know something. It's the way the world works. Personally I'd much rather be learning something and improving myself than just working!
