... because Im the cynical, moody girl nobody really talks to. I keep people at a distance and have been called intimidating at times because of my aloofness. Anyway, he's liked me for a year+ and has tried to talk to me from time to time, only to recieve a cold response, because I simply don't trust him. He strikes me as a player. He has dated this gorgeous, slim, blonde who was a total slut, and yet if ever they were on the rocks, he would always try to turn my direction to see if I've changed my mind about him. Get this, at one point I weighed 200 lbs exactly and he still liked me. Anyway, since then, I've lost over 30 lbs. He obviously is willing to see more than just my physical flaws, but I still don't understand why he would be interested? Alot of guys now are all over me because my body looks good all of a sudden, but the last guy i thought I could trust is now the only one I trust to see me for more than that. So my question is, why would he be interested in someone like me? And should I give him a chance?