My bff and i are very close (Obviously) I hate this guy who always knows how to push my buttons! We don't get along very well.It starts out smooth than gets really ugly from there. Her boyfriend is a pervert and a jerk i absoulutely hate him!!! I know this may sound really harsh but the first day they went out i told him to stay away from me. It's not jealousy either! She knew i hated him and she still knows now! Its only been a week and she wanted to take it slow but hes already kissed her! Lately i have been meaner i yell more and i have a short temper now i never used to be like this when hes gone im super nice but when hes mear me im mean. I don't think shes getting the point of me hating him! I've had problems with him already.He treats her nice yeah i should be happy for her because she needs a great guy but i hardly talk to her anymore. I don't know what to do anymore! Help me please!
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Trust me I know exactly what your going through my best friends Girl pretty much is awful, i went to a party and got wasted and she told my parents so yea i hate her!! But anyways if your buddy really likes this Guy i personally would leave it alone, just set up times to be with your friend where he isnt involved, with my friend i stopped hanging out with him when she is around, but we hang out alot still and just remember your probobly in Middle Or High school its just School it doesnt last forever and try to stay Positive :)
From my perspective, that of a girl, in hight school, I have to tell u this happens all the time. The thing is people change in high school and that is very hard to deal with. I believe she understands what u feel about this guy. But she probably wants u to understand that she has a life of her own outside of u and other friends. And that she also might like this guy a lot and wants u to try to get along because she wants u both to man up, get past your feelings towards each other, and be their for her. Because if u to r best friends, she really doesn't want to lose u.
I think if you like her you should tell her how you feel its never healthy to keep it in, but christmas is coming up i think you should get her something nice like jewerly or something that says be mine or something sweet, or you could just get her jewerly without the writing but after you give her the christmas present you should tell her how you feel, of course not around her doosh bag boyfriend but maybe you could invite her over, tell her how you feel and before you tell her you should get a piece of paper cut it write on it pranked you! then put it in your pocket so just incase she says no cuz i have a boyfriend then you tell her ya but i like you more and if she says no then pull out that peice of paper that says pranked you so that she knows you were really pranking her incase she says no then you have proof just saying praked you you need proof on a piece of paper and if she says yes i like you 2 im dumping him then later that day throw that piece of paper away but deffinatly wait to tell her you like her after christmas so that you can woo her with your nice gift that way shes already like thinking your really nice and sweet then you ask her and she will so say yes :)
Uhm, a helpful as this was I'm a girl and she's my bestie but no hard feelings bro :)
Thanks i'll try to keep cool