... talk and things seemed ok until one of us just stopped talking to the other, this went on for another 2 years. She has had a few boyfriends since and I have had one girlfriend. When my girlfriend and I got together she tried to break us up by telling me terrible things about her and acting like she was just looking out for me. She now has a new bf and my current girlfriend and I were having some problems for a little over a week and I was out drinking it away and ended up texting my ex. Longer story short she (ex) is trying to get ahold of my girlfriend to let her know what I did. I have already come clean to my girlfriend about what happened and apologized. My ex never answered my texts or called me back nothing like this. My question is why would she say how bad of a person my new girlfriend is and then try to act like she is looking out for her now??