Skyrim xbox 360 I want to marry aela can you and if so how?

You can in fact marry her. If you go to there will be a church there. Go talk to the priest and he'll tell about all this boring stuff about marriage and gods and stuff like that. He'll give you a ring, you can talk to a certain list of A.I.s and they'll probably note the ring on your person. You ask about marriage and stuff to them then you wait I think a week and go back to the church then you two are married.