I am more successful than him, I have a job, car, and license. He doesn't have any of those things.. I have been with him for almost a year and been pushing him to get all of these things, he has yet to do so; however, he DOES seem to be trying more to get these things lately.. I'm tired of waiting and I don't really want to be disappointed, but he said he is working on taking me on a special date where he pays for everything, but its been about a month since the idea was made.. I'm not sure if I should stay with him and give him another chance OR just tell him.. Its time to be separate. It hurts me either way.. please help!