My daughter is 16 and. I recently discovered she has a bf he is aparently 20. I figured out when my daughter's friend sent me a pic of them together aparenly she and my daughter were having a fight and that was her way of geting back in the picture his arm is around her and you they are looking at each with loving eyes when I questioned my daughter about the picture she said that he was her boyfriend and that they had been dating for 7 months when I asked why she didn't tell me she said she thought I would freak out when I asked about him I was shooked to find that he is 20 why would a 20 year old man want a teenage girl when I figured out about this I got mad at my daughter and sent to her room I also took her phone and computer and grounded her for 3 months should I make them break up ? She's never done anything like this before I didn't even thinked she liked boys
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I think you need to look into the man more before you go grounding her and such. Invite him over for dinner and get to know him. Be open to him, never look at him with bad facial expressions, don't freak out, and let him explain what kind of life he has. Does he go to college and what does he go for? Does he have a job and/or a license? P.S. Watch closely and see if he interacts with anything bad, because for all you know, he could be best for your daughter if he is responsible and treats her with respect as a person on this Earth.
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Thank you so much this was very helpful I'm going to tell her that I would like to meet him.