Well i used to have a small crush on my guy friend but ever since noticed how immature and annoying he can be i stopped talking to him.Now he started being a douche around me and he stopped talking to me or and now he constantly stares at me during the class periods i have him and in lunch when i hang out with the seniors. today he told me he has a girlfriend now and i responded saying that i dont care and that i could care less.(like really, i dont care because i lost interest in him and he also knew i liked him.)and he was like "youre lying to me you be jelly!":D and its getting on my nerves:C he still flirts with every other girl(because hes a flirt)and i ask him dont you already have a gf?and hes like i dont care(is he trying to make me jealous or something?:/ because im the only who he asks if im jealous) . ..he like wont stop looking at me and i see him almost everywhere i go..so should i tell him something or ignore him?Its annoying and i.dont like immature people like him.Were both 14 btw. Thanks:)
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Did he get to know that you liked him ,recently? Sounds that to me. Well, i think he's trying on you, he's testing you, he wants to make you feel jelous (most probably his gf is just a fake one) . Wait for more patient ,sometimes he would stop. If he isn't , if that makes you so much to get on to your nerves, even as you don't like him anymore, spit it out what you've got on your mind. Don't let him bother you so much :)
He just talked to me last period and he asked me if i ever watched star wars ansld i said no..so i asked him if he could just tell me one part of the series buy went overeboard and told me the whole thing..and then told me about indiana jones..the whole thing again and seemed like he was happy to tell me..and continued on as we where about to leave but stopped when he saw his gf staring at me..its so confusing but also thanks for the answer c:
Hmm.. Confusing! Now what comes to my mind is, he thinks you're more interesting than his girlfriend. I guess he likes you more. BUT,don't forget that once you said he flirts with almost every girl. If so make sure you don't let him to put you in that catogory.
We girls can never decide "whether he likes me or not" till he said it by himself. Once I had a guyfriend(still he is, my best friend) and he flirted with me (once he said should he act like my bf when a guy was bothering me... And so many things like that) and I thought he had a crush on me,so I let my feelings to grow. Some months later he had asked out a girl and you know,..i went through lot of sorrows. Yet,he didn't me he has a gf(but doesn't flirt with me now) and I dunno why. I've met lot of guys like that.
What I am telling you is, don't jump in to any conclusion till he said it straight up. (or till you confess to him) we never can know whether a guy is just flirting or having a crush. Behave like you don't care anymore. :)
Yeah ill just keep waiting to see what happens...but i guess ypur guy friend went out with another girl because he wanted to go out with you and expected you to ask him out but you never did just saying...but also
thanks for the answer! C:
Haha. Yeah Zoey! I realize it now. He was a shy guy and there were few times he asked whether I like any guy,but I said No 'cause me too waiting for him to say it first. And i AM regretting now.
Anyway.. You are welcome! :) good luck!
From experience, id slowly drift away from him. Not entirely cut him out in one swipe and be rude back. Like to start if he were to approach you and try to start up any conversation, just give him one ended responses (Like yeah, ok, good, whatever, etc), then move on to just saying Hi, and eventually yall will drift apart.
I tried for awhile now...and hes acting different all of a sudden..we message about once a day(he messages first)and ive been sick lately and keeps texting me "hope you gey better soon""Stay safe and good night."i told him i was going to the doctor and said "i hope"??Then tells me it seems like were getting closer.like what..so what do you think of this?
Yeah they bearly um sort of hang out...some guys even told him to stop flirting with other girls because he has a gf but tells them off and ignores them..also thanks for the answer. :)