So imagine a situation like this. Me and my BFF are both friends with this guy. I like-like him and he like-likes her. I know how he feels about her but I don't know how she feels about him. I'm afraid that if I tell her she will either hate me or help me get him(depends on how she feels about him). And if I tell him and he does not feel the same way about me, he might act weird around me knowing I like him. I really don't know what to do because i care so much about both of them.
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First find out if your friend likes him, so that way if you try to make a move, it wont ruin your friendship. Then, if she likes him, tell her you like him too. Just because he likes her doesn't mean she gets him. You deserve a chance as well. But if it seems like he has no interest, then don't bother. Don't tell him how you feel, because it will result in awkwardness (trust me, I did this with my crush) Just do your best to move on.
Honestly u should ask ur friend to be honest with u and ask her if she likes the guy that u like and if she says no then tell her that u like him and that ur gonna tell him... But if she does like him back I wouldn't do anything like I always say chicks before dicks meaning ur friends always come first before guys. It really does depend on u if u want to tell him that u like him.
This is a situation where you will have to b patient and observe the scene taking place. Are they gonna get it on or not. Of not then you will have decide whether its worth being second best if he does like you or accepting he isnt interested. Bottom line is to let them take their course and hopefully make a good choice if an opportunity arrives.
Wow you are in the same situation as me what i did was just casually ask my best friend just a simple question do you like-like him? And i asked her to answer as my best friend and not lie and turns out she kinda did have a very small feeling for him and i was devastated. And even now i still havent confessed i feel slightly guilty! So soon when i feel the time is right im gonna tell him.
I talked to my BFF today. I didn't aske her straight forward, I said "he is cute" she said "yeah..." then I said "what? you don't like him?" to what she replied "i do but just as a friend". I think it was honest, at least I hope it was :)