Me and this guy have been together for over 9 months. He's very entrepreneurial and the last four months he's been working on making this software to sell. Well he usually will text me and call me everyday when he's not working, but the past week he's been working on it like 2x more than usual (usually works for about 5-7 hours) and he's hasn't tried calling me or texting me at all... Like I understand that he's busy and his future depends on this, but if he can't take a few seconds to text me and let me know he still cares should I even stick around? I'm the one who's been texting him and he barely responds, and I said that we should just stop talking and he didn't even care. Before he stopped contacting everything was perfect and now it's like I'm nothing to him. He told me he loved me a few months ago for the first time and usually treats me like a princess. If I were important he'd still try contacting, right? I'm just not sure If I should keep trying or give up. I feel like a crazy person for texting so much and it hurts so bad I don't know if I'm overreacting.... Please help, idk what to do....
Answers (2)
Sounds like he wants you on retainer for sex. That, or he's just a passive coward.
If it were me, I'd text "It's over" and commence radio silence.
That'll put the ball in his court for once and all. But you gotta stay strong if you go that route!
I didn't go over, but since he won't answer my calls I've been texting him. And I asked him if he could just tell me that if he wanted to end it to tell me now so I can get over everything and he answers but everytime I ask him to tell me it over he completely avoids the question and talks about something different. And finally last night he said he didn't want to stop talking but said maybe we should just be friends