I need help, I've re-entered into a relationship with someone whom has divorced me. I have very many doubt about the relationship but find myself in love with her. If I continue I move halfway across the US and if i don't I stay put.
Should I stay or should I go?
- Posted:
- 3+ months ago by Hexlith
- Topics:
- stay, relationship, relationships
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Added 3+ months ago:
Through the marriage we have one child.
Added 3+ months ago:
Her and I talked about everything, and she is truly amazing and knows me like the back of her hand. To the person that said all the positive stuff, thank you. We are going to make it work.
Responses (2)
You obviously have love toward your spouse or you wouldn't have married and wouldn't have started to see them again. Your relationship also probably has issues which probably caused the other person to leave. Have you both considered counseling? Most of the time people really battle their person within when having issues in a relationship where they love the other. I bet if you both settled the battle within, the rest of the issues would really solve themselves. It really comes down to, can you both think about the others needs and want to try to meet those needs more than you try to meet your own needs. Have you considered reading Gary Chapman's book on "The Five Love Languages"? Mr. Chapman has identified 5 ways that people feel loved. His idea is that you find the way that person likes to have love showed toward them and you do that. Then they really feel loved and they want to return acts of love back to you. It's a beautiful thing if you think about it. As for the move, true love is worth the move, don't you think? Good Luck.
