This morning, I got home at 5.30 from a sleep study at the hospital. I entered the apartment quietly so as to not disturb my roommate. Just as I got in the door, he was walking into the livingroom & saw me. The look on his face was one of "oh it's you" as if I was the last person he wanted to see. I told him the weather was bad, & he mumbled something as though he didn't understand, so I repeated it. "Hmmm". was what I got. I know he hates snowy weather, but it was forecast. He is usually terrible in the mornings, but I'm tired of being treated rudely just because he doesn't like mornings. I've got a lot on my mind (health-wise) & I didn't appreciate being treated this way.Should I speak to him about this, or let it go?
Answers (1)
We are all susceptible to various factors. Perhaps that morning your fatigue and his poor mood just matched and the situation seemed even more depressing.
You will not change his attitude towards the morning, and at best, he will simply close it from you. It seems to me that try to relate to the situation easier, not paying attention to his mood in the morning.
If the question is that you, in principle (that is, in general) are treated improperly, then it is worth explaining. But when talking, try to talk about your feelings, not reproaches. That is, it’s better to say "it hurts me when you grumble in the morning" instead of "you are a grumbler, I'm tired of it"