Should I keep trying??

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Ok.listen i know a girl for 3 years.This year i asked her if she wanted a relationship but she said i see ya as a friend but i dont know in the future.Anyway for couple months we didnt talk,until she started talking wiht me we talked on fb,on school so i asked if she wanted to meet with me and my friends and she said yes she came 2 times and 1 time she came at my home alone without anyone else everything was going very well,until a friend of her typed her in fb ''you dont like him but you are at his home all the time''.I was heartbroken does this msg means that she like me and she didnt said it to her friends or that she doesnt like me idk what to believe pls tell me should i keep trying or move on??? Keane-from Cyprus.

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it sounds like to me that she was liking coming to see you and then the friend says this on facebook so is she staying away because of what the friend said or is she still coming over or did she value what the friend said this is the question you need to have answered i think she likes you i'm not sure if her friend is running her life or not or she likes you and her friend doesn't

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It's hard to say if she likes you or not, she might not have liked you before, but she is starting to now. Or she really only ever saw you as a friend. A female mind is a strange thing :) Here is what I would do: ask her out, casually, to hang out, or a drink or whatever, and tell her that you like her, and you want to know how she feels towards you, but that you would understand if she doesn't like you (try to act mature about it) and that she could still be your friend. That way, if she tells you she likes you - good, if not - now you know where you stand, and you can choose to keep her as a friend or not, and be free to pursue other girls.

Should I keep trying??

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