Hello. I need some advice here with my cat situation. Me and my wife had great relationship and everything is perfect for us. We have a black lab that we loved. Recently a neighbor was given a couple of kitten and we got one. I was not looking for more pets but I agree in having it, I just could not leave the cat to god knows what. We had the cat for maybe 4 months now. I have tried to work with it but I really don't like it and is creating some anxiety in me. It makes me feel bad with my principles but I think the cat will be better with another family. He climbs over the countertops, on the windows treatments, inside the dishwasher, basically everywhere. He already has broken a couple of stuff around. I'm trying because my wife really like is it and treat it like a son (we don't have kids). I don't want to be selfish by asking her to get rid of the cat but cannot find a way of being happy myself with the animal around. I don't want to get it declaw neither as I'm not in favor of it. I want to be a responsible pet owner, good husband but I also want to be happy. I'm worried the cat will affect. Our relationship since it affects my mood and will make me more distance. I will only adopted to a good family. Not really sure what to do. Any respectful advice? Thanks