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That depends on what you want more.
Would you rather have your first child first? Or move to Arizona first?
Personally, I'd say it'll be easier on both of you to move first, rather than have the baby and then try moving with a young one later. There'd be more furniture and things to move to the new house. Plus, a tired, angry baby travelling to Arizona isn't the ideal trip to make.
I need to pick one or the other
What should I do...
You were asking if you should have the child first. You didn't give your ages, so I wouldn't have known that information.
Ultimately, it's you and your wife that can make that decision. Not random strangers on the internet.
Thank you
My wife is 38 after 39 we don't want to chance having a baby at that age