My daughter proposed to her boyfriend that she lives with not sure when but social shows today. She calls me and she proposed to her boyfriend then tells me she will call me right back I then get a text saying she is getting married that night at a lounge and wants me to come I live a couple states away. I said congrats but try to convince her there is no rush to get married, not even his parents were told yet. I don't know what to do I love my daughter but I feel she is rushing it not sure how her boyfriend feels they live together and he wasn't the one to propose. Should I go even though I know they are making a mistake to rush the wedding I wish they would wait a couple of months.
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You got the invitation to the wedding. If you want to keep a relationsjip with your daughter, go and keep your mouth shut. No comments about who should have proposed or they should have waited or anything else you go and say congratulations and many years of happiness. You say nothing derogatory or negative on her big day! If you want to be in your grandchildrens lives then keep your mouth shut! I dont care if there is a 90% chance the marriage will fail. Stick a smile on your face and toast the happy couple. You are included if you can get there then go. If you can't order flowers and send best wishes. Dont make her wish she hadnt asked!