So recently my mom has been going through a lot of trouble because she wants to move to another state to live with my stepdad (who I do not like) and my half brother and take me and my younger brother with her. Life with my mother isnt the greatest , but it definitely isnt the worst. Everythingwas great until my stepdad came in the picture and started to influence every opinion and decision of hers. My dad on the other hand lives about 8 hours away from where we are now and life with him is a lot less stressful and happier. He has a girlfriend of 3 years (who I love) and do not struggle to get by on a day to day basis. Every summer my brother and I spend the time at his house and once it is over, we go to the place where my stepdad and mom want to live and visit for a week. This past summer, my, the day before we were supposed to fly back home, my mom told me that it is finacially easier to live here so they decided to move. I of course was not happy with this decision so the first thing I did was pick up the phone and told my dad what was happening. He was fighting to get us to move and a court hearing was ordered to settle the dispute. after one of the hearings my mom was ordered to come back home and put us back in school (he had only missed a week) until the judge has decided wether or not she is allowed to move out of the state with us.
Now I am half way through the semester and school is going fine, but the court ordered that we go me with a therapist to talk to, since I am not allowed to discuss what is happening with my parents. The therapist was very straightforward andsaid there is a slim chance that I will be able to live here so I will have to decide where I want to go.
I am half way through high school and I don't know wether or not I should keep fighting to live where I am or move in with my dad. What should I do?