So there is this girl that I have known for a little over two months. Whenever we have conversations, whether in person or over text, facebook, etc, we always seem to have nice long conversations and neither of us feel uncomfortable to be honest or completely silly with each other. I want to feel that I can build a strong steady relationship with her because I usually do not feel as comfortable being myself and more open compared to most other people. While I am not completely sure if I have feelings for her yet, I plan on asking her out at some point in order to see if I want to move the friendship to the next level. Since I have not dated before (I'm 18 btw), do you think I should go for it? Thanks
Should I go for this girl?
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- 3+ months ago by michaelsb...
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- conversation, relationship, girls
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Defiantly go for it! It's great you two can have long steady conversations together- and if you have a strong connection, I'm sure she likes you back. Just ask her out, and be yourself. If she says no, don't worry about it, it's nothing personal. But... did you know that 75% girls say yes when a guy asks them out? Yea, it's true. I'm truly impressed you've got the nerve to ask her out, most guys are to scared or shy. Girls like to know that you love them, although don't get too romantic on your first date ;)
If you want to wait awhile to see if you have complete feelings for her, go ahead. We don't mind, unless it's something like 3 months... then we get confused and not sure if you like us. Just go out there, look her in the eye, and ask if you two want to go out to dinner and watch a movie. Go for it! ;D
Go for it but slowly. Since you cant understand your feelings yet it may be hard to start your relationship.Uhmm if you can be yourself and she accepts you then you've hit the jackpot . Have you noticed her flirt with you or say something to catch your attention. You have to also think in terms if she likes you. Don't worry yourself over it like I have. If she feels you sould just be friends then try to understand. I know it can be hard but Its better to be friends than to be nothing...right. I hope I helped and didn't bring you down! If you have any other questions just ask!
When I say " accepts you" I mean she likes you for you.