Ok so here is what happend. We dated for about 2 months i know it doesnt seem like a while but i fell for her. It got out we were dating (im a girl too) and people started making fun of her. She thinks i told when i didnt it was actually my old bestfriend. But everyone i know, that knows doesnt care. I need her in my life. I love her to the moon and back. She act like she hates me but i feel like she doesnt. Can i have some help?
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you really have to just set down with her and talk to see where her head is at she might be scared feeling about what others feel and them and set down and talk to her let her know who done it she might not have faith and your old friend needs to know how you feel about what he or she did and why it was done
People have no right to make fun just because her preferences are different. You must love her so like others, I would not recommend you to give up on her because trust me, you just can't ( I would know because I still can't get over the guy I have loved for 6 years but who hates me and inturn, we both hate each other but deep down, I still have feelings for him)
So, try to make her jealous.
If she still cares, she will come to you herself. Aplogize to each other. And people can shove sticks in their arses.
Take a stand. Love for your happiness, love each other but do not give up what you have just because of the fact that people made fun.
Show them who you are.
And try to make your girlfriend understand this.
You can do this in two ways:
1) You can go out with other girls and flaunt them, and say loudly when she is within range: "Atleast my new friend isn't a coward."
2) However, a positive approach is to take her to a coffee shop and try to tell her that it doesn't matter what others think. People get over it.
3) Tell people to shove off. (that's a substitute for f-off)
Don't give up your love for other people. Be brave. And love with all your heart :)
She said she didnt mean to tell it slipt but she lied. She will say t straight to my face that she did on purpose. I will try to talk to her but it probably wont work but thanks for the advice.