My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months, but our relationship has been very strong, we both really love eachother. we went through a rough patch a while back when we both got a bit scared of commitment, we never broke up just backed off a bit. he went to a party and had a bit to drink and i had this horrible feeling something happened, but he never said anything and we went on. we spent a whole week together and got very connected again. he just told me that night he got with another girl, and he regrets it so much and hes been to scared to tell me and loose me. he was crying on the phone and is so sorry. what do i do ? i really love him but cant believe he ever got with another girl, i cant stop thinking about it
Should I forgive my boyfriend and give him a second chance ?
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- 3+ months ago by jj85
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- love, boyfriend, chance, together, strong, relationship, month, relationships
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The decision is up to you..I must say that alcohol is not an excuse for bad behavior....people always use that for a way to get out of trouble!! If he is going to drink he needs to be more responsible. I think you should sit him down and express ur feelings to him.... before you give him a 2nd chance ...let him know how this makes you feel. The best way to move forward is to get closure and last please have him get tested. best of luck!
thank you all so much, we have talked and im giving him a second chance. he is so sorry and said he will wait for however long i need to regain his trust.
I know a girl that was dating a guy for around 6-8 months. She told me that he cheated on her, and she forgave him and let him back into her life again. Then the dude, not too long after that, cheated on her again. She forgave him, AGAIN, and then 2 weeks later he broke up with her. She Told me she was really in love with him, that's why she forgave him. It's completely your choice to forgive him or not. If I was in your shoes, I probably would, but that's the kind of person I am. All I gotta say is that if he does it again, drop him!!!! Because if he does it more than once, it proves he must not care too much about your relationship. You don't wanna end up like the girl I know. D: good luck, go with your heart~ After that, go with your brain. (:
Well said... That is true though people use Alcohol as an excuse