Should I end this relationship?

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I have been in a relationship for a little over a year now. The boyfriend is a lovely guy, someone I would be utterly stupid to ever leave. But I don't love him. I know it sounds stupid, because I am in my early twenties, do I even know what love is? 

That being said, I always have this nagging feeling to break it off and try to find someone whom I am more compatible with. I am only as young as today, things like this shouldn't be left til I m in my 50s right?  

Has anyone else experienced a similar situation? If so, what did you do and how did it turn out for you?

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I would not...passion only last so long.  Friendship / loyalty and all the other things is what a longterms relationship is made of - without it, it would not survive.   This is only my opinion - you need to do what feel right for you

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Those kind of relationship choices are so painful, they're hard to write about. You're certainly old enough to know what love is, and when it arrives you'll know. Mine is a male perspective but none the less relevant. Think of how long you could last in the relationship, and if you can't envision a future, move on. Your happiness is at stake. Yes I had similar relationship. I loved overwhelmingly, but there wasn't any trust. It's hard but I wouldn't be here today if I hadn't walked away. It's difficult but not for long. lol.

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You should choose whether you're with him that your not happy or you're not with him and your happy and contented. You cannot be happy if your in a guy that you don't love. You should set him free for him to find his happiness in life. You can tell to him in a good way,  he shouldn't be in that situation if from that start you've been analyzing your feeling to him.

Should I end this relationship?

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