I accidentally saw a text message my husband sent to a friend. In it he commented on how attractive a woman at his gym was. It hurt my feelings more than anything. Should I bring it up? I don't snoop on him and I don't want him thinking I do. My Daugther was playing with his phone and when I grabbed it from her, I saw it.
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Well...it depends. Men notice attractive women. You probably see attractive men, and think that they are by but would never act upon it, right? Do you feel the same about your husband? Does he constantly check out other women, or does he make you feel like you're the woman he loves? If he makes you feel insecure in any way other than this incident, I advise you confront him. if not, I wouldn't mention it. saying someone is attractive isn't a crime. however if he never tells you how attractive you are, then I can see how it would bother you and then I would confront him. you weren't snooping after all.
I think that women do go a little beyond the limit(s).
As far as what and how men think, react, respond to how women look.
All women love compliments!!!!
It lets them know that they are doing the right thing into how they look, dress!
Think about the why and how you feel about what you read.
B4 jumping in too fast and ruin the lines of communication between the 2 of you!
You do talk to him about it!
Then you will have trust issues besides that 1!!!!!!
Suggestion! Let this 1 go for now!
If! You see it again!
Then confront him about it!
Think b4 you speak 1st.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
First why will you think that your husband will cheat on you can't you commend on someone you just saw, do you know if the person he is sending the message to knows the lady very well or if she is married or do you know if he wont you to look like the person the saw at the gym. Secondly how you dress when your husband is at home matters if you look like his mother in the village he will be forced to look outside for someone who will look sexy before her man, so my dear look good for your man it will keep his eyes at home, am a man so i know what a man wont's from a woman.