This was my question here is the deal. My wife's sister has a lot of money last year she took her to the Bahamas to help with the kids and now they are going to Cabo. We have been married for 20 years and together for 23 we have not been able to go on trips money has been tight rasing kids. We have always done things together some small trips but with kids. I told her she could go but I told I was not happy about it.
Here are the reasons
1. I would not go without her to Mexico I would not want to
2. I can afford to take her yet and she will have experience without me on my sister inlaws dime.
3. I feel like when we do go on this trip it won't be the same because she's been before.
4. I also feel like there is no consideration for my feelings I know she will be faithful that's not an issue.

Am I a control freak my wife says I have separation anxiety or something.

Confused feelings about this.