... plans? My boyfriend and i have been living together for 4 months now. I have an 11 yr old son who lives with us and im 6 months pregnant with our first child together. When i met him a few years ago he was with his ex whom he also has a 7 year old daughter with. Him and i were just friends and did some business together. I had been around his ex and family on many different occasions. Eventually they broke up and him and i got together. I heard through the grape vine that she stills cries over mh boyfriend and even thinks i had something to do with their break up. Now that him and i live together, whenever his ex needs a sitter even when my boyfriend isnt available she asks "well isnt she there"? She being me who she obviously feels is obligated to care for her daughter. She's even told her daughter to tell me to do her hair during her stay. Also, im not working right now because of the pregnancy. My boyfriend does work. Whenever his ex has to work, job hunt, go to the club, to the lions game, etc im always in pursuit to be the sitter. His daughter is sweet but i have a hard time bonding with her because she constantly craves for attention from me and is very annoying. I have expressed to my boyfriend that i dont like his ex's expectations of me but he keeps allowing it. I just wanna be pregnant and be able to relax and be left alone