My girlfriend and I are both 19, dating a year and a half, and she is in a sorority at a different college than me. She has a date party coming up and I can’t go because of school. She wants to take a guy who she is friends with. Should I be okay with this because honestly I don’t feel okay with it. She has plenty of friends going as a group so I don’t like the idea of her going with another guy. Any advice?
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Well it comes down to if you trust her or not. I am confused by the part you say date party. Then say there girls going as a group what with out dates. If she trying to fit in at her sorority house and with her sorority sisters then she might feel the need to follow the sorority rules of the party. If the guy is only just a friend then shouldn't have anything to worry about. If she never cheated on you before and if you didn't steal her from some other guy then she hasn't giving reasons not to trust in you and her true love relationship. If you truly worried about it. Find away to be her date. Make a road trip go be with her. . Other wise you'll have to trust her and belief you both have love so strong nobody can break you apart. . You could say no stay home and if your sorority make you have date then drop out of your sorority. But I think that could cause you to lost her love respect in you.