So a friend of mines who's friends with this girl I know from my school told me she finds me cute and told me to "holla" at her. Haha. But the thing is,she's really unapproachable. She's like really shy and awkward.I heard that the time to talk to a really shy girl is when she's alone. But when I am about to talk to her she completely ignores my existence. But the thing is I catch her looking at me when I look at her she quickly looks away. She's in my trade but we've NEVER had a conversation. Awhile ago she asked asked me if my name was Tyler(which I'm pretty sure is an excuse because again,we're in the same trade) I answered her and that was pretty much the only time we "talked". Should I send her a friend request on FB and start a conversation with her or would it be too weird and/or stalkerish?(We have mutual friends by the way)
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I mean, if you want to do it that way. I'm a female, I find that talking on Facebook is quite impersonal. However, people do seem to gain more nerve over the internet. I think that if you really like this girl, then gain up the confidence to talk to her in person. Ask her out or something. Girls, more so, Shy Girls, coming from one, tend to do what you're describing. We don't start up the conversation. If we like someone, we wait & wait until they talk to us. I say, go talk to her, IN PERSON. If you have classes together, it should be easy enough, or catch her in the hallway o at lunch. I promise she'll like it better if you do it that way, IF she does like you. It may be a little awkward & she might not say much, because that's how shy girls are. Initiate the conversation, ease your way in & then ask her out to a movie or something.
I think you should try to add her on Facebook first, and then once school starts again, try to start a conversation with her maybe the first day back. (If you see her.) Then once you guys get to know eachother better, ask her on a date. (: But if you think she likes you, then add her on Facebook and try to talk to her on that, and maybe ask her if she wants to meet up somewhere sometime. Good luck!!! (:
But don't you think it would be a little weird to just suddenly talk to her if we've been around each other for months and never initiated conversation? Plus I'm on Summer break.