So I've been dating this guy for almost a year now and I've noticed something really disturbing and a huge turn off for me. He's 21 years old and still begs his parents for things and talks to them everyday. I've realized this is the most disturbing thing I've had to deal with in any of my relationships and I don't know if I should break it off or not. He finally got a job it's been a month now of him working. He can't afford a bus pass and he's lazy and won't walk 45 minutes to get home and he will beg his mother to drive 30 minutes to pick him up from work and take him to My boyfriend and I's house (yes I convinced him to finally take the step of moving out) even worse his brother and sister are almost in their 40's and still live with their parents he will sometimes pass up a day to spend with me to go to his parents house all day. him and I got into an argument he pitched a fit like a two year old called his parents and begged them to pick him and his things up to move back with them AGAIN but they told him no. He also asked his mother to buy him his bus passes Uber's and now a new phone case for his iPhone that his mother got him she also pays his phone bill ... i for one am very embarrassed I am 20 years old with my own house (renting) in my name I take care of all the bills and I don't have that close of a relationship with my parents that would be weird. Is this a mental issue with my boyfriend and his parents? Or am I wrong for thinking this is weird? Please help :(
