Okay so my name is Zack and I'm kinda popular at school because I like being myself but I go to a Catholic school so I can't really express myself through my clothes but back it the topic. So every boy at school has a crush on this girl named Emily and most of them like to annoy her and other weird stuff to get her attention but it seemed like I could never get her attention, but she is my new partner in a science project and I was kinda scared. The week before I got assigned partners with her she caught me staring at her in class and I didn't mean to stare at her she just has the most perfect hair and she got all freaked out. So at science class I had to sit by her so we can do research on a science project and she would just be like "Zack you love me" and I would say yep like sarcastically but she keeps on saying it and looking at me and smiling after she says it like she knows I'm in love with her. Then now she keeps on talking to me and then the next day just ignore me . Look I know I'm to young I'm only in 8th grade but I feel like sometimes I'm lonely that most of my friends has girlfriends and I never even had one except that one times when this girl dated me because of a dare and it dramatized me that she didn't even like me but that was in 6th grade and now I'm in 8th grade and is in love with a girl but don't want to get hurt again. Help!
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When you're alone with her, ask her (in a serious way) if she likes you. If she makes a joke of it or doesn't respond, tell her that you don't like girls who don't know what they want and act indifferently towards her.
So you have three outcomes:
1) She says yes, she likes you.
2) If she does nothing, she has no interest in you.
3) If she keeps trying to get your attention once you ignore her, then she likes you or is self-absorbed/wants attention for conceited reasons (in which case, continuing ignoring her because that is immature).
Okay, she might be initially freaked out, teasing you, or is asking for attention. Or is probably a spy...
Anyway back to topic, talk with her alone, and be serious, but don't over do it.
Ask three questions, at least three, not stalking questions, but like casual questions. She has a chance to like you, and has been too shy to tell you. Well, I'm not a love expert, but i've answered these kind of questions
So I Hope This Helps!!!~ :-)
Well, I'm a girl btw.
She wants attention, she knows you like her and shes playing you with this. I know, because shamefully... I do it aswell.
Us girls love attention. The mixed signals are all because she doesn't want to be with you so she can't be completely loving, and she doesn't want you to lose interest because she wants the attention. Show you don't care and she will come running!