I am 11 years old and I have recently found 3 condoms in my brothers possession. 2 in his wallet and one in his room. Plz advise me on what to do.
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To the person who sent me the first answer. I understand what you mean, but what i am worried about is the fact that he is probably having sex even though he is too young and that he may forget to use them and might get someone pregnant or he might get caught by our parents, who would be outraged.
OH come onnnn !
The dude is doing what every guy does from the time he first starts wanting sex.
FANTASIZES
I had condoms in my posession when I was 15, didnt use any til I was 17.
But having them creates a sort of thing in your head that it MIGHT happen, and if it does (which it probably wont) then you'll be ready.
Its really a self assurance thing a lot of guys do.
Dont worry about it.
You should take my advice because I'm 12 and my brothers 15.I find condms in his wallet,room and bookbag.I worry alot to because I don't want him to forget to use one or if it breaks.I get scared alot.but try not to stress to much.are you and your brother close?because if you are close try tp talk with him.for example say: umm bro I found condoms in your wallet and room I'm worried about it because if you forget to use one I don't want you to get any girl pregnant.what if she has a dieseas.please be very careful.That's all.but try not to worry to much!
dear friend, first things first, are you a Christian..? if not, well i'll tell you this...because of the hormones that are building up inside of us, especially at your brothers age, it is something that many people (like your brother) feel inside them...ask him about the condoms...have a talk...for me, morality speaking, i don't like the idea of having sex at that kind of age where youths should put their concentration on studies and help their parents...think about those young girls...what would happen..? they were just like toys that after a few sex the guys'll leave them to find another 'victim'...if you had a sister, would you like that to happen to her too..? every now and then a change of boyfriends..? have pity on girls...they're just like our mommies...they are God given partners for us...not a plaything...that after using them suddenly dump them and find a new one...but as for you young man, i believe you are far more different..! God bless you..!
we can't pretend that teen sex isn't happening. personally- i'm trying to hold off because a boy tried to rape me when I was 11 but i got away just before i lost mai v. it was horrible- but this is different. it's optional. there's so much pressure on people now days, and i think you should just be glad he's got a condom. but if you're really worried, talk to him about it.