The other day I was staying in a hotel with my boyfriend, and it was that time of month but things were getting a bit heated between us. I'm not interested giving oral so I gave him a hand job, but afterwards he went into the bathroom for a good 20 minutes or more. I know he definately wasn't going to the toilet, so what was he doing in there for so long?
Note: I'm 19 and I've only ever been with this guy, and it was the first time I'd done anything like that. So I'm not really sure what's the norm.....
Thanks
Sex - I'm not sure if this is normal for a guy, or if I did something wrong?
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- 3+ months ago by normaldays
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I have not needed a reason to visit the loo or be on my own for 20 mins after sex, receiving a hand job from my lady ( or from my self!) Only go there as I often feel the need for a wee ( natures way of ensuring fresh sperm are ready for the hoped for seconds!) & or dispose of the condom (in the bin not down the loo please as it does block things up!)
Other than going for a sulk, (ungrateful B), he could have dropped of to sleep on the john, it does take it out of us & we do get so sleepy afterwards!
Although obvious, have you tried talking to him, express how you felt & ask if there is a problem. You should feel safe to be as intimate with your feelings as with your bodies at this level in your relationship.
Hope this blokes experience & perspective helps you both,
Take care
