... lot. Whenever I walk down the halls I can hear people whisper to their friends saying mean stuff about me. People call me creepy because of the clothes I wear. They call me things like, goth girl or emo. They don't even call me by my name, they just say emo girl. (I'm not emo) Some of the kids at school say they're scared of me, and they don't like being around me. They also think I'm mean which is kind of true.
A year ago, one of my friends told me that people are saying stuff about me, like saying I had HIV and STD. I asked her who said it, but she said no, because it's just gonna cause mess. I'm like, 'then what are you telling me for? Now I wanna know.' I started to not care what people say about me , but then they would give away all of my business to people I didn't know. They'd talk about my personal life, and how I used to self-harm. I was really depressed back then and tried to commit suicide several times. I went to talk to my school counsler, but it didn't seem to work. I wasn't the only one who was depressed. I had a few friends who would be there for me,because they know how it feels.(I'm not gonna tell you the stuff that are too personal) My one friend tried to kill herself last year by slicing her wrist almost cutting her vein. I cried, and what made me cry harder is when her mom didn't care.
Anyway, I've been bullied at school. I was jumped by 5 kids and everyone was just standing there not doing anything. They were kicking me in the stomach and head. I left the school campus walking in the middle of the street. I almost got hit by a car when I girl pulled me out the street. No teachers were around but one. I was so confused, because he wasn't doing anything.
My mom found out I had cuts on my arms and she yelled at me then cried. I promised not to cut anymore, but I broke it. I started cutting again, but this time my mom didn't find out.
Most of the kids at my school stopped bullying me and apologized.
Except for one girl when she told me to go die. I was really upset, but at the same time I didn't care anymore, because now I'm used to people saying these kind of stuff to me.
Only one time where I cried is when this boy yelled at me saying "no one likes you. I sure no one would care if you were dead." His friends were just listening not saying a word. I didn't cry because I don't like crying in front of people, but when they were gone, I went to the restroom and cried, but shrugged it off. Even though all the people don't talk about me, there are a few that still say stuff. I don't know what I've ever done to them and why these people bully me. They don't just say things to me with hurtful words, they also hurt me physically. I try to fight back, but most of them are boys and they're stronger than me.
My looks:
People called my ugly, saying that I'll never get a boyfriend. I don't like my appearence that much and I try to change it. My friends say I'm pretty, but I don't believe them because I know I'm ugly. People also called my anorexic.
You might think this is nothing, and I'm too weak, but more and more stuff has happened to me, but I can't say.
Sorry if it's kind of boring
Schools - Okay, so I'm 14 and I'm having problems at school. I have friends at my school but not a?
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Answers (5)
ahhh im so sad i feel bad for you but im gonna help u ok so 1 thing i dont get is that boys beat u up if ur a girl just gather friends i was bout2 fight once and my friends had my back like if some1 stepped in theyd help so just try to make a lot of friends if u cant lay low 4 a while take shortcuts to classes im thinking about my life and i hate it fricking i hate my dad & mom i barly have any friends a lot of people think im week but im pretty strong but i cant get a girlfriend because she's dating and might move i HATE MY LIFE i want 2 kill myself but im scared of the pain but my point is live life 2 the fullest sorry for my language but if some1 fucks around with u make them back off but dont do it to much or people wont like u i moved to my town in 4th grade and didnt have anything but slowly i ris up and became noticed im a 13 boy can u answer my ? pleez remeber fuck them up if they fuck wth u talk to the princble if u want to be a snitch who gets stiches yolo u only liv 1nce so fish fuck it shit happens
Sad to hear that. But honestly, not only you experiences those things. Okay let's settle one by one.
What if I’m Being Bullied?
1. Don’t react. “Bullies want to know that they’ve succeeded in making you feel bad about yourself,” ... “If you don’t react, they lose interest.” The Bible says: “He that is wise keeps it calm to the last.”—Proverbs 29:11.]
2. Don’t retaliate. Revenge will add to the problem, not solve it. The Bible says: “Return evil for evil to no one.”—Romans 12:17; Proverbs 24:19.
3. Don’t walk into trouble. To the extent possible, avoid people and situations where bullying may occur.—Proverbs 22:3.
4. Try an unexpected response. The Bible says: “An answer, when mild, turns away rage.”—Proverbs 15:1.
5. Use humor. For example, if a bully asserts that you’re overweight, you could simply shrug your shoulders and say, “I guess I could lose a few pounds!”
6. Walk away. “Silence shows that you are mature and that you are stronger than the person harassing you,” says 19-year-old Nora. “It demonstrates self-control—something the bully doesn’t have.”
7. Work on your self-confidence. “Bullies notice when you aren’t relaxed,” says a girl named Rita, “and they might use that to destroy whatever self-confidence you have.”
8. Tell someone. Remember, bullies thrive on secrecy. Speaking up can be the first step to ending the nightmare.
TIP:
“Avoid places or situations that will make you an easy target for a bully. Remember, too, that bullies are going through their own issues. When you know that, it takes some of the sting out of their words.”
“Be confident in yourself. Don’t be afraid to stand up for what you believe. Many bullies back off when they see that you aren’t giving them any power over you and that you aren’t afraid.”
If you feel lonely, What you can do?
1. Focus on your strengths. (2 Corinthians 11:6) While it’s good to be aware of your flaws, you also have much to offer. Recognizing your assets will give you the confidence you need to break free from a negative self-image and overcome loneliness. Ask yourself, ‘What are my strengths?’ Think of some talents or positive qualities that you possess.
2. Take a genuine interest in others. Start by showing interest in just a few people. “Simply asking others how they are doing or asking them about their work helps you to get to know them better,”
TIP:Don’t limit yourself to people of your own age. Remember, too, that conversation is an interchange, not a monologue. People appreciate good listeners. So if you tend to be shy, remember—you don’t have to carry the whole conversation!
3. Cultivate “fellow feeling.” (1 Peter 3:8) Even if you don’t agree with another’s view, patiently allow that one to talk. Dwell on points that you agree on. If you feel you must express disagreement on some issue, do so in a mild and tactful way.
Tip: Speak to others the way you would want to be spoken to. Needless bickering or teasing, insulting, or self-righteously condemning others simply alienates them. They will like you a lot more if you “let your utterance be always with graciousness.”—Colossians 4:6.
Don't worry I know you handle this!
Its simple
the purpose of your life is.....Do you know it..........if u dont than read below
FINDING YOUR SELF BY DOING WAT U LOVE TO DO
people dont love you because you dont love your self. Start loving yourself by ding wat you love to do.
n its easy to find wat you love to do.
respond to every thing which excite you like, singing dancing, painting hiking, chatting
find the ppl in ur area who have same interest like dancing classes, swimming classes etc.
than your world gonna be change
Be fearless, Be true to yourself, follow ur excitement it doesnt matter what your excitement is
hey if they saying... creepy because of the clothes you wear. They call you things like, goth girl or emo. They don't even call you by your name, they just say emo girl. (I'm not emo) Some of the kids at school say they're scared of you , and they don't like being around you . They also think you are mean which is kind of true.
will you should start being nice to them