i'm kind of person that defines himself from results with others ...im so good with people i don't hurt anyone's feeling and i'm always trying to fit but most of the i fail i really sometimes feel like i'm lost and i don't know myself ...most of the people that i wanted to be with ..they don't care about me i even tried to be someone else and act someone else as they wanted but nothing change....even when i love a girl i start unbeing myself when i'm arround her cause i'm afraid to lose it ...so my question is: what is my problem??
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Your probably trying to be someone your not and want to live up to everybody else's expectations and not your own you have to live up to your own cause you wanna be yourself not what everybody wants you to be your not being true to yourself but its normal to feel lost it won't feel any different
and what if i be myself i will not be accepted by the people that i care about ?
i'm not living other's expectations ..but i'm living sometimes fake to fit in and i was doing doing this so long so i no longer know when it's really me or when i'm faking it