I'm a 16-year-old-girl and dated a 24-year-old-man.After being friends for a while we started falling for each other and he asked me out.We were madly in love.I just knew that from the way he looked at me,talked to me,kissed me,caressed me,hugged me.He introduced me to his family and told me about how he imagined his future family.When I asked what he wanted this thing to be,he answered that he wants this to become more serious and anything can become from this.Once he even told me that he adored me very much.
Soon he got a job in a distant town,but didn't move there and so we couldn't really meet because he became very busy.After a while,I asked him again about our relationship and he said that he had been thinking a lot about it but came to the conclusion that it just wouldn't work.He thinks that he's too old for me,doesn't want others to think that he's a pedophile plus he just wouldn't have time for it.He assured me that he really loved me and there weren't any other girl in the case.
Later when we talked about the problem he said that he NEVER wanted anything from me,which hurt me real bad and I just know it isn't true.
So he said no to me,but he also mentioned a possibility of regret in the future.
Why do think he changed his mind? Is it possible that he'll regret his decision?
Saying no to someone and loving them at the same time?
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- 3+ months ago by KenGirl
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I sorta agree with the guy, he might be kinda old for you. I dont want to discourage you or anything. he might want to marry someone closer to his age and he might not want to at the same time. If he still loves you why would he give you up? HE might be excited on his new job. ANd yes, hr will probably regret it if he does move on, which he shouldnt.
Keep looking for new guys but still have him in the picture.
Dont stress about it, he wont forget you. Just keep up hope.
Good Luck!
Possibly he is thinking about your life too and not just himself. You still have your whole life ahead of you and he probably knows that. Have you talked to him recently? Maybe you should be honest with him and ask him to be honest and ask him why he loves you but is moving on....
i wish you the best of luck!