I'm madly in love with a girl she really is fantastic and I care so much about her but there is one thing which really is beginning to upset me, maybe i'm being a over sensitive man but when my friends ask me about our personnel life i do not give them any detail or anything as such. i may joke occasionally but i do not brag about anything we may or may not have done. because i feel its unfair and disrespectful to her to talk about this sort of subject unless she feels completely comftorbale with who i'm telling. so far in our relationship none of my friends know anything for certain however they think they do because they assume but that doesent mean there right. However. . . i'm pretty sure that she does tell her friends, and to me what we have or have not done shouldnt be important i just feel uncomftorbale with the idea of people knowing everything we do because it makes me feel self consious and embaressed in no way is that embarresment a reflection on her shes the most amazing girl ive ever had the pleasure of knowing and im so proud of her . but am i right in feeling uncomftarble with this should i say anything? how should i approach her with this? pug :-)
Relationship trouble, help!!?
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- 3+ months ago by pugster321
- Topics:
- girl, love, care, relationship, trouble
Responses (2)
Coming from a woman this advice might be helpful.... Um, I definatly think people that have a sexual relationship need to keep it private. If ur being respectful and keeping ur bedroom romps(or lack of) to urself she should show you the same respect. Tell her that ur uncomfortable, tell her that it isnt fair that she's telling her friends about ur bedroom business. Be honest with her if you like her as much as you said you do. My ex allowed his friends in our bedroom to hang out, even having friends looking at our bed or sitting on it bothered me, let alone he was telling them what I did for him in bed.. That really sucks, I wasn't too happy about him doing that. Without trust and honesty you have nothing... Just tell her the truth about how ur feeling. Good luck!!
speaking for an experience i would say just be honest to her and go speak
to her an a understanding matter about how u feel,if u dont
things will get worser more relationship conflict about nonsense
and u will lose her but if u talk to her she could probably turn out to be more understanding about it and things could work out a lot better